Possibly Rob Warne and Sophie Sierra aren’t precisely meant to be?
All of us watched as Rob begged Sophie for a 3rd likelihood after she caught him dishonest on her (once more).
It appears like they’re nonetheless attempting. However 90 Day Fiance viewers aren’t so positive that it’ll work out.
Ought to they keep collectively? There are such a lot of components that would break them up perpetually.
However first, Rob and Sophie DO have issues in frequent
Clearly, we’re going to listing the multitude of issues that would tear Rob and Sophie aside for good.
(Arguably, a few of these are issues that ought to tear them aside)
However there are some clear issues that drew them collectively. This wasn’t a random pairing — they actually did hit it off.
Rob and Sophie are each comparatively younger. Sure, there’s an age hole, however not a serious one. She’s in her early 20s, which is arguably too younger to marry below regular circumstances. He’s simply over 30. That half’s wonderful.
They’re each biracial. Which means that they’ve each lived particular experiences with racism and household dynamics that different Black folks won’t share. Partly, that is how they met on-line.
Additionally? They’re each simply tremendous sizzling. That’s value mentioning.
However not all is properly
There are, as we talked about, loads of points that this couple are already dealing with or could finally face.
A few of them could also be obstacles that the 2 can overcome. They might even make them stronger as a pair.
Different hurdles could journey them up much more than what we’ve seen. And these might spell the top of their romance.
Indoor plumbing, please
Rob’s house is … uncommon. Many viewers are shocked to study that it’s apparently authorized (is it) to hire such a spot.
He doesn’t have a rest room. Accessing the toilet requires crossing the courtyard. The lavatory smells unhealthy, and viewers can see swarming bugs.
This isn’t a sustainable residing scenario. Rob can dismiss Sophie’s considerations all that he likes, however she’s proper. How lengthy does Rob count on her to dwell in substandard situations?
Rob is … moody
Greater than as soon as, Rob has demonstrated what some followers have generously known as “crankiness.”
Put extra bluntly, he appears to have an perspective downside. He oscillates from calm to offended and unkind at a second’s discover.
At occasions, even issues like mentioning his previous errors or some mild teasing about an elevator will make Rob … disagreeable. That’s not acceptable. And it’s the kind of factor that tends to worsen over time, not higher.
Twice a cheater
When Rob and Sophie had been nonetheless long-distance, he despatched attractive messages to a woman who despatched him sexual movies in return. At the very least, that’s what it appears like. Sophie noticed screenshots of their change, and it took her greater than a 12 months to belief him once more.
Effectively, Rob did the identical factor once more — even realizing how devastated Sophie was the primary time. We don’t know all the particulars, however clearly it wasn’t simply porn or “spam” like Rob tried to assert.
What appears to actually damage Sophie is that Rob did this twice. Additionally? Dismissing it as “on-line” and thus meaningless has to harm. He met Sophie on-line.
Rob has a chip on his shoulder
Sophie grew up with cash. Rob very a lot didn’t. In consequence, it’s been clear from day one which one among them has … resentment points.
There are occasions when it appears like Rob is personally offended with Sophie for not having suffered financially. Resenting financial injustice ought to by no means lengthen to holding a grudge towards your future spouse for the circumstances of her delivery.
Some followers on social media have noticed that Rob at occasions looks as if he needs to “punish” Sophie for her upbringing. Is he even acutely aware of how this appears?
Sophie’s household effing hates Rob
Admittedly, we’ve solely heard from her mother thus far. However Claire even has a nickname for the man. And despite the fact that “knob” means penis which ought to be a praise, it’s completely not.
Reality be instructed, Sophie’s mom’s opinions are making increasingly more sense because the season continues.
Level is … in case your future mother-in-law despises you, it generally implies that your relationship is below further stress.
Some form of child blues
It seems that Sophie and Rob are on completely totally different wavelengths in terms of whether or not or to not have youngsters. A part of it’s bodily — Sophie is afraid of being pregnant (it’s horrifying) and isn’t positive if she will change into pregnant.
However she additionally hasn’t allowed herself to think about changing into a mum or dad. In the meantime, Rob is useless set on it. To the purpose the place he allegedly can not see the purpose of continuous a relationship in the event that they’re not going to have youngsters.
There’s rather a lot at work with that. However principally, Sophie and Rob must work this out. She’s the one with the uterus, so clearly it’s her name. Additionally? It’s not a terrific signal that they by no means mentioned this.
Sexuality
Sophie is bisexual. That’s not a shock to viewers who would possibly go days at a time with out a lot as seeing a single straight particular person. However she hasn’t instructed many individuals.
Sophie needs to return out to Rob. And he or she could even wish to, solely together with his blessing, hook up with a girl someday. She hasn’t, however she’s a bi girl in order that’s a standard factor for her to need.
How Rob responds to this — and the way lengthy Sophie takes to inform him — may very well be an even bigger deal than it should be.
Are we saying that their relationship is doomed? After all not.
Possibly it ought to be. They might each discover people who find themselves extra suitable with them. They’re each main hotties and would possible haven’t any hassle.
However … they might keep collectively for 5 days or fifty years. We’ve seen a lot worse {couples} keep collectively for a very long time.
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